Thursday, January 22, 2009

Seducing Women: What Every Guy Should Know

By Chaszey Sandhriel

How does a man learn about seducing women? Effective seduction can be extremely stressful if a guy tries too hard or he doesn't try at all. A guy gets rejected when he tries too hard, and he won't get any dates if he doesn't try at all. So what's a regular guy do to start seducing women?

Start with affection. When you feel affection for a girl, show it. Be emotionally available to her and don't hold back. Thinking about romancing a girl is the most natural form of seduction because it will show in your actions.

Let your touch linger. If she feels comfortable around you, you can share hugs and hold hands with her. Let your touch linger a few seconds more before you let go. Subtle touching will keep her wondering and soon, she will follow your lead. Physical closeness will encourage sexual tension, the good kind.

Avoid sending mixed signals. Stay consistent with your approach. Smile every time when you look at her. Women, just like men, don't like getting rejected and if your target isn't sure about how you truly feel, she won't take risks.

Stay alert for signs of seduction from her. A woman may also be trying to seduce you but you are too focused trying to learn about seducing women that she's getting frustrated! Seduction is always a two-way street, so perk up, take a look around and notice how girls are trying to woo you as well.

Get help from music to finish the job for you. Get some music she likes and put it on the next time she comes to your place. Make a CD for her with the music she likes and prepare a romantic dinner for her. Dress up and do some ask her to dance in your living room. Music will always set the mood and can make her feel at ease and lower her inhibitions.

Seducing women also means to seduce her senses, this includes her sense of smell. So don't approach a woman when you're sweaty and stinky. A pleasant smell activates certain states of mind that awakens her senses for love making. Light some scented candles. In particular Lavender scents relax women.

Prepare finger foods and get her to feed you. Or prepare dips to go with chips and lick the dripping sauce off each other's fingers. Moving your lips will shift her focus from your eyes to your lips, which has a seductive effect on a woman. Women have playful and active imaginations and playing with your lips on your part will have her start fantasizing about kissing.

My final tip for seducing women requires much needed privacy along with scented oils. Don't be shy giving her a massage, starting with her hands. Always notice her mood and comfort level, make sure you stop when you sense that she doesn't want you to go further. If you play your cards right, she won't want to resist a relaxing massage from someone who cares about her. - 16955

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