When it comes to texting, there are rules to obey like any other fun game.
Rule 1: SMS is not the answer to escape a phone call
A lot of men figure that a text message is much more safe than a phone call. True, but it will not consistently lead you to your goal. And that goal is to set up a date. The chances of seeing her again raises drastically when you get her on the phone and make plans as it builds comfort and familiarity.
If you can't talk to your potential date over the phone, there is no way you could carry a conversation in one on one.
Rule 2: Never expect replies of validation
Remove value seeking texts like, "What up?" or "What are your plans this afternoon?" Texts like this scream neediness, make you less attractive to women, and do not help spotlight your fun characteristics.
Here are some sample texts sent that have been proven to be much more effective...
"Your twin just walked past me wearing a purple sparkle fanny pack"
"Hi nerd! I'm sure you're operating at a level of 100% nerdiness today :) "
Rule 3: Avoid sending too many messages!
She may be the only thing on your mind, but don't let her know that. Don't scare the bunny away! Text once, and if she replies, you may do so. But if she hasn't, then wait until the next day before trying again.
Try to place some space between text responses. Keep in mind, non-neediness means sexy because she will see you are in demand and have other romantic options.
If in doubt, follow her lead. If she texts instantly, do the same, but if she text after 15 minutes, then do the same.
Bonus Texting Tool: Use the text to familiarize her
Right after you get her number, send a text while you're standing next to her. It is funny in itself and double points if you send a funny message or inside joke. Give these a whirl...
"You have my number now but you are only allowed to call me once per day."
"Who is that really hot guy standing next to you?"
Once she saves your number, you can be confident she is interested. But even more important, when you call later, she will have your number and caller id appear. There is even more chance for her to pick up the phone to a recognized number. - 16955
Rule 1: SMS is not the answer to escape a phone call
A lot of men figure that a text message is much more safe than a phone call. True, but it will not consistently lead you to your goal. And that goal is to set up a date. The chances of seeing her again raises drastically when you get her on the phone and make plans as it builds comfort and familiarity.
If you can't talk to your potential date over the phone, there is no way you could carry a conversation in one on one.
Rule 2: Never expect replies of validation
Remove value seeking texts like, "What up?" or "What are your plans this afternoon?" Texts like this scream neediness, make you less attractive to women, and do not help spotlight your fun characteristics.
Here are some sample texts sent that have been proven to be much more effective...
"Your twin just walked past me wearing a purple sparkle fanny pack"
"Hi nerd! I'm sure you're operating at a level of 100% nerdiness today :) "
Rule 3: Avoid sending too many messages!
She may be the only thing on your mind, but don't let her know that. Don't scare the bunny away! Text once, and if she replies, you may do so. But if she hasn't, then wait until the next day before trying again.
Try to place some space between text responses. Keep in mind, non-neediness means sexy because she will see you are in demand and have other romantic options.
If in doubt, follow her lead. If she texts instantly, do the same, but if she text after 15 minutes, then do the same.
Bonus Texting Tool: Use the text to familiarize her
Right after you get her number, send a text while you're standing next to her. It is funny in itself and double points if you send a funny message or inside joke. Give these a whirl...
"You have my number now but you are only allowed to call me once per day."
"Who is that really hot guy standing next to you?"
Once she saves your number, you can be confident she is interested. But even more important, when you call later, she will have your number and caller id appear. There is even more chance for her to pick up the phone to a recognized number. - 16955
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