Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Could Your Spouse Be Cheating ? How To Find Out For Sure

By Doug Timlin

With infidelity rates being higher now than ever before, it's not surprising how many people have suspicions that their spouse might be cheating. It you have your suspicions, you will be glad to know there's an easy way to find out.

The following technique will get you the answers you need about your relationship quickly and without your spouse ever knowing you are "investigating" them. Here's what you need to do:

Step #1

Your first mission is to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for approximately 15 minutes. You want to choose a time where you can look at their phone without worrying about them walking in on you.

Look over all of the calls that show up in their call history on the phone. Make sure you look at both the incoming and outgoing calls - most cell phones will have a list for both of these call types.

Grab yourself a pen and a piece of paper and write down all the phone numbers that you see on their phone's call history. If you spot phone numbers that you recognize you can leave them off your sheet of paper, but do be sure to write down every phone number that isn't familiar to you.

Step #2

Now it's time to find out exactly who owns each and every phone number that you have on your list. This is the key step in finding out if your spouse is cheating.

There is a way that you can find out someone's full details (name, address, background information) by only having their phone number. It's called using a "reverse phone lookup" - this gives you instant information on the phone number.

There are companies that specialize in gathering phone records (they pay for this info) and then build massive databases that have information on any phone number (including unlisted and cell phone numbers). You just have to type in the phone number and the details are then displayed on your computer screen.

It's no surprise that these companies charge a fee when you use a search, but it isn't anything expensive. My recommendation is to find a company that offers unlimited searches for a flat one-time fee. There are a few that offer this which makes it a lot cheaper than having to pay for each individual search.

Right at the bottom of this article there's a link we included so you can use a free sample search to get an idea of how this works.

You guessed it - you are going to run a search on every phone number on your list. As you are doing this make sure to write down the information you uncover for each one next to the number.

Step Number Three

Now you are left with a list of all the names of the people your spouse has been chatting with. Knowing exactly who your spouse has been communicating with makes it easy to see if something "fishy" is going on.

Take a glance at the list you have made and look for anything that looks out of the ordinary. Since you have the name and background information of everyone your partner has been talking to, anything suspicious will jump off the page.

This "investigative" technique is an easy way to find out if your spouse is cheating on you without them ever knowing what you are doing. You need to know if your spouse is treating you with the respect you deserve and this gives you an easy way to find out. - 16955

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