Saturday, November 29, 2008

Is Your Spouse Cheating? Here's A "Detective's Trick" To Find Out

By Phil Burnett

Are you worried that your spouse might be cheating on you? If so, you're certainly not alone. Infidelity rates are now at an all-time high. We wanted to show you a quick and easy way to find out if your spouse is being unfaithful.

You might be surprised to find out how many people are now using private investigators to uncover if their partner is cheating on them. This can be expensive and take a long time to get answers - you don't need to go this far to know the truth! Always try this "detective's trick" first if you want to know whether your partner is playing around.

This method is quick, incredibly simple and will barely cost you a dime. There are only three steps you need to follow so let's go over each of them one-by-one.

Step #1 - How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

In the first step you need to be a touch on the sneaky side. You will need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for about 15 minutes so you can look at it without worrying about anyone walking in and "catching" you.

There are many different times you can choose to do this - perhaps your spouse just stepped out to the store or mall without their phone of they have just jumped in the shower. Just make sure you have in around 15 minutes of alone time with their cell phone.

Now that you have their phone in hand you are going to look at their call history that is stored on their phone. You want to look for both the 'incoming' and 'outgoing' call history list. When you find it, write down every phone number that you see on a piece of paper.

If there are some phone numbers you recognize you don't have to write them down. Just make sure you are jotting down every other phone number you see.

Once you have your list complete, it's time to put back the phone and go on to the next step.

Step #2 - How To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating

In front of you there should be a list of all the phone numbers that your spouse has either called or been called by. Now it's time to figure who is behind each of these numbers and find out exactly who they have been talking to. With only a phone number, you can find out someone's full name, address, location details and background information.

How is this done? There are companies that pu together databases that contain information on the owner information for every phone number (this includes cell phone and unlisted numbers). These companies then let people search through the database to find out information on any phone number they want to "investigate".

This type of service is available online to the general public. It's called a "reverse phone search" and will instantly how you the person's name and details right on your computer screen.

We included a link at the bottom of this article so that you can try a free sample search to see how it works. Have a try and bookmark the page if you don't have your list with you.

As you have probably guessed, there is a fee for this service. It's not expensive though. The cheapest way to use it is to find a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only charge. This way you are only billed once and can run a search on as many phone numbers as you want.

Go through your list and run a search for each phone number. As you do this, write down the information you find out about each one next to the number on your list.

At this point it's time to go to the last step.

Step #3 - Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?

This last step is where you can to "put it all together". Once you have a list showing exactly who your spouse has been talking you, I can guarantee that anything suspicious will jump off the page at you.

Pay attention to the names that you see on your list. There are many times that people will suspect that their spouse is seeing someone else in particular - if this fits your situation, does that person's name show up?

It's easy to figure out if your spouse is cheating on you once you know who they have been talking to. This easy "detective's work" will get you the answers you need about your relationship and whether your spouse is being truly faithful to you. - 16955

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